Why your happiness depends on you and no one else

Do you wish everybody preferred you or liked you? Do you frequently figure you can’t be content until you’ve “won over” everybody in your life? At times, do you feel like you’re going here and there aimlessly attempting to please individuals and it just never happens? Try not to make anybody the guard to your happiness and satisfaction.

We think our satisfaction relies upon others thoroughly concurring with us, enjoying us, esteeming us, knowing us, needing to be in our organization. However, it simply doesn’t work that way. Indeed, we can nail our joy to outside conditions, on things that are happening as we want it to happen and on our loved ones cherishing us back in the perfect manner we wanted to be adored. Yet, you’re setting yourself up for something that may or may not happen in future. If it does, you get to be happy, but if it doesn’t, you have to settle for disappointment and sadness.

The terrible news is life is untidy. Individuals are what their identity or their character is, things don’t generally work out precisely how we figure they should, and not every person will like you. Also, the good news is that life is untidy! This implies that ‘YOU’ get the opportunity to be what your identity is, and ‘YOU’ don’t need to like everybody. Also, things won’t generally go the manner in which others figure it should with regards to you. It’s absolutely impossible on earth that you could give everybody precisely what they need when they need it. That is a consolation for you. All you can do is try to be yourself and be kind to everyone. Always try to let go of the situations that are stressing you and making you compromise your happiness just to get other’s approval. If someone tries to hurt you, don’t take it personally. Be the bigger person and try to forgive them. Your life is too big to get hung up on these petty differences.

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