We all have feelings towards others, but not everyone is good at expressing the same. That feeling of nervousness comes from lack of confidence inside us. But practically it is not an unsolvable problem at all. Here are some ideas that will surely win your love over for you.
- First and foremost be perceptive. A relationship is not something you can suddenly jump into. You have to be sure about the person and make examine your decisions.
- What you think about yourself is important than what others think. Do not overthink about what might happen next. If you are true to your feelings being gloomy will only lower your confidence.
- Be sure that you understand the person well enough. Study their life know about things like their interests, talents, hobbies, etc. Determine similar qualities between you and him/her. That should help you build common ground and make you confident about your decision.
- Do not try to act differently around her. Trust yourself and be the best of you. A little shyness is still cute. Be bold and confident when you propose. Careful! Too much confidence can scare them. Remember she might be just as nervous as you are. Establish a balance.
- Avoid making complex talks like proposals over the phone or social media. This may seem to be an easy way out, but it only makes it more difficult for them. Ask her out, propose in person. Your feelings must be understood and it has to look genuine, which is not possible through social media.
- Lastly, accept and respect the decision he/she makes. It may break your heart to be rejected and you may be upset. But it is not easy for them to do so either. Maintain the bond of your friendship. You never know when one might change his mind!!
Try to win them over but not too often. Sometimes giving up is better than nagging and further driving the person away. It’s hard to give up something you hold dear to you, but if it is not the same for her, there’s absolutely nothing we can do.
