The most cherished human experience is love. While love is the most beautiful feeling, there are some lessons that it teaches you while you chase it.
1. You are love
When you try to chase love, the most beautiful blessing in disguise is that it pushes and motivates you to look within. You learn to love yourself. You realize that all joy, love, serenity, and ecstasy radiate from you. You don’t go outside looking for love and affection once you realize you are in love.
You start concentrating on living your best life and being the best version of yourself.
2. The concept of “to love” and “to be loved”
When you chase love you learn that “to love” and “to be loved” are in fact two separate concepts. It’s a hard lesson to learn, but love is about giving rather than getting. Because there are no guarantees in love, it is a risk. But if we don’t risk suffering, we won’t be able to experience joy and all of the other aspects of life that make it important, alive, and fulfilling.
3. Love is more than just passion
We’ve been taught that love is all about passion. Mature love, on the other hand, requires a great deal of understanding. Chasing love can teach us that we often mistake feelings and passion for love, but true love necessitates more than infatuation. Love is about helping each other grow as individuals.
4. Time is precious
When we fall in love, we can become so blinded that we miss indicators that the other person isn’t feeling the same way about us. We wait in vain for them to change their minds, and we waste our time waiting for them.
Chasing love teaches us that life is too short to spend it waiting for someone to return our feelings.
5. Love cannot be forced
The most important lesson learned from chasing love is that love cannot be forced. You can prepare yourself to embrace love with an open heart whenever it comes into your life by making yourself ready and sensitive to it.
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