Long-distance relationships are intense and its absolutely impossible around that. Many individuals would disclose to you they never work, however, we can address the opposite from individual experience. Honestly, the way into a strong long-distance relationship is equivalent to some other relationship, it must be between the perfect people who understand each other well enough. But even for the people who know each other for too long, if you don’t do certain things or do something you shouldn’t have in a long-distance relationship, you will end up breaking up.
- Things you shouldn’t do in a long-distance relationship: –
Don’t be jealous of your partner spending time with others. You have to understand that they are going to meet new people and they can even make some new good friends. And since you are not around much, they will try to make a new best friend. Don’t be petty or too aggressive about it. Even if it affects you try to be subtle while talking.
Don’t lose faith in your partner. Even if she makes new friends, she won’t replace you with anyone. Have trust and believe in her. Only you know her in and out, you should be confident enough to know that she will never break your trust.
Don’t be resentful or angry at them because they had to leave and stay away from you. Its sometimes not in their hands and if you truly love them you will understand how they feel and let them go. You have to understand that they won’t be going away for too long. However long they are going away for, they will always return and will miss you all that time.
Don’t be angry for a long time. In a long-distance relationship, it is not possible for them of you to go hug them or do something lovely to apologise for a mistake. If they are sorry about a mistake they made, you should forgive them, holding a grudge will only build hate inside you and make it worse with time.
- Things you should do in a long-distance relationship: –
Do take some time to talk on call or video call or chat from time to time. It is necessary to maintain a strong bond and communicate as much as you can at the beginning of the long-distance. It is always possible that you will miss each other all the time and the feeling will make you wish to be together again. Talking helps to control those feelings. But make sure you don’t disturb each other.
Do accept the fact that since this is a long-distance relationship it is obvious that it won’t be the same as a normal relationship. You have to understand and let this sink in.
Do make sure you visit your partner as much as possible like on weekends or holidays. You must spend as much time together as you can. Making yourself available to them is very romantic. You can even surprise them with a visit.
Do trust your partner no matter what situations might make it look like. Also, support them in their career or decision of moving far away from you. You have to understand that it is difficult for them as well to leave but it makes it easier if you support them.
