Some of the guys seduce you and make you believe they’ll be the best guy you’ve ever met, just to leave you crying on the floor because all he wanted was sex. It’s unfortunate, but it’s occasionally the case. However, if you’re aware of the indicators that he’s only interested in sex, you can avoid it.
Fortunately, some males make it apparent that they’re solely interested in using you. What’s difficult is if you become involved and then try to convince yourself that he’s not the same. Because you care so much about him, he’d never do such a thing to you. It’s difficult, but you have to admit the truth every now and then.
Here are some signs that prove he is only interested in sex.
1. At first, he doesn’t appear to be really interested. How interested did he appear to be when you first met? This is significant because a guy who likes you right away and attempts to engage with you is looking for more than just sex. He might merely desire sex if he looked uninterested until you got flirty.
2. The first time you spoke, it was only on the surface. You didn’t actually talk about anything important because he didn’t seem interested. The color of your underpants was perhaps the most essential aspect of you to him.
3. He emphasizes your appearance over your personality and other characteristics. It’s never about how funny or intelligent you are when he compliments you. It’s always about how good you look naked or how attractive you are. These aren’t compliments from someone who is interested in you for more than your physical appearance.
4. Your conversations constantly seem to wind up on the subject of sex. Everything eventually becomes filthy and wicked. You can be talking about your day and what you did, but he’ll always turn the discussion sexual. Even if you try to get things back on course, he’ll divert your attention with sex conversation, and you’ll wind up sexting as a result.
5. He only messages late at night or when he’s looking for a hook-up. Basically, you’re carrying the relationship’s weight until it comes to sex. Then he’s generally the one to start any discussions or even hook-ups about it. This is one of the most telling signals that he’s only interested in sex.
6. He never asks you real questions. It’s always the same old stuff when you talk. He doesn’t make much of an attempt to get to know you beyond how you appear when you’re naked. You have the impression that he doesn’t even know who you are.
7. He’s never stated anything about a romance. He’s never made you believe you’re in one, and he’s never mentioned it. A guy who genuinely cares about you and wants to be with you will almost certainly bring up the subject of relationships. If he doesn’t, he might just be taking advantage of you.
8. You always have “dates” at home. You never actually leave the house. Even if you complain, he could divert your attention by saying something to the effect that all he wants to do is curl up with you. He, on the other hand, does not want it to develop into a relationship. Staying at home also facilitates simple sex.
9. You don’t know much about him or his background. You probably don’t know much about him if you think about it. Guys who are only interested in having sex with girls are generally secretive about their personal life. They stay to themselves and only provide you with the most basic information.
10. You’ve never met any of his acquaintances. He’ll probably keep you away from his pals because he doesn’t want you to assume he wants a relationship. A man who is simply interested in sex will not care if you get along with his friends. As a result, he just will not introduce you. In essence, his friends may be unaware of your existence.
