Remember Ross’s “ we were on a break” thing, we’ll no matter how funny it seemed to us and everyone figuring out who among them was right or wrong, The hidden message was they both shouldn’t have taken a break, the reasons Rachel gave to take a break from the relationship were not worthy enough. When things can be sorted through communication, why should you choose otherwise? However, here are some situations where taking a break can be considered a good idea
· When you are fighting a lot and you find no end to it
Sometimes in a relationship there comes a phase where both the partners fail to understand each other and therefore, there are lots of fight in a relationship. Having conflicts is a part and parcel of every relationship but there has to be some end. If you and your partner fight constantly and it seems there is no end to it, you both probably need a break. Unless and until you stay away from each other you won’t understand the value of staying together. In such a situation taking a is a good idea to save your relationship.
· If your partner cheated on you and you need time to make decision
There’s nothing worse than your partner cheating on you if you find your partner cheating on you, you either break up with them or give them another chance. Not always it is ideal to break up or file a divorce. In such situations, you must take a break from a relationship and take time for yourself and decide about what next? It is important that when you take a break from the relationship you think about your mental health and peace.
· If you are not satisfied with your relationship
There are times when you feel you are not satisfied with your relationship and that you don’t get what you expect from your partner. Sometimes it’s just a phase where even your partner is going through some kind of issues. If you both can’t find a way out of it, it can be a good idea to take a break. Since you love each other you shouldn’t go for break up or divorce but take time for yourself and learn about what’s lacking in your relationship? And can you both overcome it to have a healthy relationship?
In the following situation taking a break is not a good idea.
· When you fought for silly things and you want to win it
Just like Rachel did! She took a break for silly fights. You should be matured enough to know the difference between silly and serious fights. Even if you had a serious fight, you shouldn’t take a break unless you aren’t able to solve it. Any mature couple will first try to solve the issue and if they couldn’t then think if a break.
· If you are planning to sleep with someone else
If you want to take a break from the relationship just to sleep with someone else then you must probably end your relationship. Because it is as good as cheating in your partner. So if you have this on your mind. Better end your relationship than taking a break as it would eventually affect your relationship.
· If your issue can be solved by communication
Many problems are created due to misunderstanding and lack of communication. Therefore, these problems can be solved by proper communication. So before deciding to take a break, try to communicate with each other and solve the issue between you.
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