Relationships are complicated and hear this almost all the time. That is because over a period of time in a relationship, you truly discover what it is like to be with your partner and you have to decide whether you wish to continue your relationship even if your partner has some faults. Sometimes you just love them so much that you only wish to be together despite all the differences and petty fights you had. In that case, you have to proceed in your relationship with caution and follow certain rules: –
- Avoid critical zone – Sometime in your relationship, your partner may have hurt you or did something against your will for which they never apologised or acknowledged your feelings. You may even hold petty little grudges against them and keep things bottled up. Same goes for them!! These things come up during an argument and only worsens the situation. Hence you must acknowledge each other and talk every little problem you have.
- Be kind – Remember that you only wish to keep this relationship alive and for that, you have to be the bigger person and have an open mind. If they apologise, forgive them. If you are wrong, apologise. This only makes your partner treat you gently and kindly, even during a fight.
- Prioritize yourself – Love and care about yourself more. If you belittle yourself, you are only making it difficult for your partner to love you. Try to show the same qualities in you that your partner likes about you. Love and care about your partner in the same way you did at the beginning of the relationship.
- Determine the source of your fights – The reason we have fights while being with are partner can differ from couple to couple. But money and distrust are the main contributors. Solve your financial problems together. Tell each other about all the people in your life and explain what they mean to you. It is common to be insecure, but being constantly jealous can lead to a bad argument.
These things should help you in getting the love back in your life. If you get over all your differences, it will only make your bond stronger. Make sure you don’t give up on your love easily. It is difficult to find love and if you do, embrace it!!
