They are all aspiring heroes.
Show him that he is your hero and that you cannot function without him, and make him believe that there are some things that only he is capable of doing. When you make him feel wanted, he will begin to value himself more. This powerful mood will motivate him to put on the Superman cape instead of the lethargic cape. Try role reversal; don’t make him believe you can do it all on your own. This will simply encourage him to slack off, even more, making your lazy husband lazier.
Let go of the menacing demeanor.
If you want a grown-up man to do something for you, you must first transform yourself. There will be no threatening, pointing fingers, or arguing. These disadvantages will just make him more determined not to work.
Gratitude and optimism.
Load him up with compliments for even the tiniest kindness he does. These small favors may not seem like much, but they will help him change in the long term. Begin with the garbage and work your way up to other little tasks such as loading the dishwasher. Things that can make him feel like he’s making a difference, but these must be quick chores, not time-consuming ones. Appreciate every little thing he does.
Inquire about desired chores.
Giving your spouse a choice of chores and asking him to commit to doing them on a regular basis is more collaborative than telling him what to do. Even if you have to perform certain chores you dislike, you will have fewer to do overall, so there is a good trade-off to consider. This is one of the most effective methods for coping with a slacker husband.
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